27 Facts for My 27 Years – Get to Know The Blogger

I can’t believe I’ve officially entered my late 20’s today. It feels like I was just celebrating my 21st birthday in Miami and my only concern was making sure I had limes for my Corona. These days I’m worrying about bills, hunting for a house, and fighting baby fever. I strongly believe that many of the trials and tribulations I’ve faced are common amongst my fellow 20-year-olds. Royalty in Reality is all about sharing my struggles and ideas of how to survive this transition from being a care-free young adult to being a real life adult. Everything you will find here is based on my personal experiences and/or other millennials. In honor of my birthday, I want to let all my Loyal Royals further into my life by sharing 27 facts about me. (more…)

3 Tips to Having a Constructive Disagreement + Thursday 3 Link Up

Last week I wrote about 3 things couples in long term relationships argue over and was prepared to write a post this week about how to constructively and effectively argue with your partner. Well while this is very important, we are two days post-election and one thing is for certain, many people are scared, confused, and questioning their fellow Americans. While many struggle to make sense of the election results or what this means for our country, there are just as many people pleased with the election results. This difference of opinion has lead to an overwhelming amount of disagreement on my Facebook timeline. So today I’m going to share 3 tips on how to have a constructive disagreement….with your partner, your friend, whoever. (more…)

3 Things Couples in Long Term Relationships Argue Over

When a relationship is still shiny and new, we’re in what’s known as the honeymoon stage. You’re spending a lot of time with bae, actively going out of your way to avoid conflict, and can’t imagine that your lover could ever do any wrong. Well eventually that new relationship smell wears off and you seem a lot more aware of little things or habits that irk your soul. Don’t worry, you’re in good company, your relationship (probably) isn’t doomed, and you’ll both live to argue another day. I recently gathered a group of my girlfriends, who have been in relationships for 1-5 years, to investigate the 3 things couples argue over the most. The results were pretty funny, but what became most blatantly clear is that we’re basically all fighting the same battles and I realized all of my Royals probably are too. (more…)

6 Step Guide to Surviving Your Dead End Job

Getting a new job is always exciting. You’re either thrilled about an increase in pay or you’re FINALLY putting your degree to use and following your passion. Days turn into months, months turn into years, and you’re once awesome new job is now a soul sucking torturous place you spend 40 hours each week. Your change of opinion could be for various reasons, but the fact remains that you’re no longer loving it and it feels like a bit of a dead end. Worry not Royals, I’m here to give you a 6 step guide to help you survive your dead end job. (more…)

3 Lessons Taught by Teenagers + Thursday 3 Link Up

As I get older, it seems that I learn lessons in places and situations I least expect. In case you’re new here, when I’m not at my 9 to 5 or working on the blog I’m babysitting. The family I currently babysit for has two children, H and E, and I’ve been with them for the past 2.5 years. H and E are 13 and 11 respectively, so I’ve gotten to watch them grow from basically kids to teenagers. While it is my job to keep them safe, get them from point A to point B, and be a positive role model while in my care, I realized last night that they have had quite the impact on my life these past couple of years. (more…)